Catch-up

Been posting most frequently on my myspace blog -- where I actually have a readership. But I adore Capps, so I'm posting these here too!

Posted 3/14:
Note to Anyone who considers me a friend:
A day or so ago, a friend of mine posted the Wikipedia on friendship in her blog. To quote from it: "Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of putting the other's interests before one's own....They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them."

I work very hard at loyalty and reciprocity in my relationships, I pride myself on that -- and being authentic and genuine with people. At first I am hesistant to trust in friendships, but recognize some risk is involved in reward. I choose my friendships thoughtfully and carefully, and I am getting better at cutting off those who drain my energies without looking out for my best interests. I recognize that some people are just better as acquaintances -- without getting too close. Some people, despite best intentions, will never be a close friend.

If you consider me your friend, (most of you myspacers do!), you must know that close friendship with me is based on loyalty and reciprocity. If those things are not present, we ain't got shit. Check yo-self, and let me know what I can do better -- how I can meet your needs.

Posted on 3/17:
Go Ahead! Act Like a Two-Year-Old!
Go ahead! Act like a two year old! Pitch a fit! Ask to speak to a manager! Hell, ask to speak to the manager's manager! Screw the customer service rep you were talking with who told you no, they're just a tiny little dipshit. What the hell do they know?! The manager's manager will surely give you free tickets/passes/meals/gifts or even presents if you whine and throw a big enough fit. Do it. You know you want to. While you're at it, drop the f bomb. Be a little crazy. Wave your arms. Spit. Hurl insults. Threaten. Again, the more scene you make, the more likely you are to get free things. C'mon. You know you want to. Be in touch with your inner barbarian!

Geez. This was the story of Tacoma Free Day. I need to get a teaching job, stat!


Posted on 3/17:
Inner 2-Year-Olds (Part Dos)
See previous post for a brief synopsis of our day at work. Yipes, it sucked.

What sucked more is having a really tough day, on an Irish drinking holiday, and realizing you cannot be the lush you are because you've got a job interview tomorrow.

My parents tried to comiserate -- they took me to Tony Romas where I devoured a half rack of ribs. Then I softly and kindly mentioned to the waiter that the corn was kinda gross and not good (it was on the cob and totally over-cooked/mooshy) and he comped me free cheesecake! Then I felt like a total bitch (since I'd been complained to all day and here I was continuing the vicious cycle of complaining) and apologized profusely. The waiter was confused and insisted the free cheesecake was the least he could do, and that really, it was no big deal! We gave him a big tip. Rough day, I tell ya...

SIDENOTE: I HIGHLY recommend the film "North Country." It's empowering, good for women, and I liked it a lot. Even has a plot and stuff.

Rambly

Written 3/10:
I spent part of the week being pissed off at the guy in our cohort who chose to ask me about my "eye problem" a few weeks back. He was insensitive, made me feel self-conscious and small. Tacky comments by people who should know better make me crispy.

I spent part of today considering the importance of a support network. People should not have to go through hard times alone, yet there are people who find themselves isolated and alone. Some are isolated because they treated people shitty along their life journey, others are just isolated due to strange circumstance. I am confident in my own support network, but probably could do a lot more in terms of being a supporter to people in my life. Hmmm...

I'm baffled by the fact my cell phone interacts with my iPod tape deck converter thingy in my truck. It makes this strange buzzing noise whenever I get an incoming call, or when it just decides to. For awhile, I had this conspiracy theory about police radar guns making it buzz, too -- so I would always reduce my speed -- but I think this theory is full of shit. If someone could logically explain this to me, I'd appreciate it!

Ate at the "Happy Dragon" this evening. It made me sorta gassy, I think. The cashew chicken I ordered ending up being a majority of water chestnuts, which was mildy disappointing. This restuarant gets bad reviews in my book. However, Costco's Kirkland Signature food won some points -- I bought lunch for six people today for less than $15. Props to you, Costco!

Spent some serious time tonight laughing with these cool chicks I know. We played games -- laughed a lot -- and it was good times. It's been awhile since I've dubbed something a legitimate "good times" (a phrase I try to reserve for distinct quality times, generally with friends I feel fairly comfortable with, generally when much laughter/craziness/mayhem occurs).

Lastly, 'fore I crawl into my toasty warm bed and crash out before the alarm goes off at 5:45am.... My parents and I got a little morbid last night discussing getting our wills in order before we all go to Sweden. I'm trying to figure out who to leave my student loan debt to -- any volunteers?